Dear Reader,
I have a feeling that if you are reading my blog, you are someone who wants to make a difference in the world. You have a desire to make the world a little (or a lot) better. Maybe you already know how you intend to do that; in fact, maybe you already are doing it – if so, congratulations!
But if you are still wondering, still searching for a way to contribute that is right for you… I have an approach that might help.
Ask yourself this question: “When I look at the world, what makes me want to cry?”
Don’t think too much about the answer. Go with what comes to mind first. For me, the answer is “unfulfilled potential.” When I see someone with beauty and brilliance inside that isn’t getting out, I feel it in my heart, and I want to do something about it.
I could also flip the question around to make the same discovery. If I ask “When I look at the world, what lights me up with joy?” my immediate response is “anyone who is stepping into their gifts.” When I see someone fulfilling their potential (and we know it when we see it, don’t we?) I am delighted. When I am involved with someone fulfilling their potential, I am grateful.
Use whichever question you are most drawn to, and once you have a clear answer, ask yourself what one simple action you could take immediately to make a difference. Why wait? One action can change a life or start a movement – or just help someone feel a little better.
OK dear reader – your turn. When you look at the world, what makes you want to cry?
I honor your loving heart,
John
John! I really like this reframing technique. It’s a great way to explore! Growing up in a world where I was taught not to cry…. And then as I got older, learning how to work with my core beliefs without creating a 15th Century Morality Play….this technique is so easy even a mummer can do it;-)! Like me!
Also I find music opens up the process…..as it quiets the programmable mind. Put the two together….
On a slightly different note (oops sorry) the music by Owl City causes to smile. . Sure he’s not Chopin, but his song ‘Fireflies’ makes me think of you and all the wonder you’re trying to share with people. Thanks again for challenging the complex by keeping it simple!
Happy Birthday… You’ve been giving your readers a real gift of guidance this year…. Many happy returns!
Hi Diane – Good; I’m glad it resonates with you! And I agree, music can definitely open up the process…. and dance, and any practice that quiets the programmable mind. Thanks for the birthday wishes and the music; the title is spot on – “Fireflies” – because in a way, this blog is about helping each other do what it takes to “light up!”
And lighten up!
I knew you would say that! I was actually thinking it would be a good topic for a post in a week or two.
Should I quote you again, just do it! And yes, I can still be annoying ;-)!